Nimekosa mtu kabisa. The stress is taking a toll on me. I am desperate.
Have you loved yourself enough? Don't be desparate, hakuna timeline ya kupata mtu, just work on yourself and be out there utapata
Don’t stress on finding someone such that it becomes all consuming. Remember a watched phone never rings. Work on you, focus on making you a better version of yourself and when the right person comes along they will find such a great version of you and they will cherish and hold on to you.