Bonga

Hi, am truly concerened on how the boychild has been left to fend for himself in the society. where can i get a mentor who can help shape my life to a better path? my dad is a deadbeat and my uncles on my mum's side arent approachable....some are just mean old bastards who do not respect women and think they are better in life since they are loaded... I have a girfriend but i need guidance on what to expect in a relationship and later when am ready, to marry someone. 

  Published  3rd Aug 2018 at 8:52 am

Hi. I am glad that you have recognized the gap and are willing to fill it. You could start by getting books to reads, or if you are a religious person, talk to a local pastor or imam. You could Start by reading hold on to your nuts by Wayne Levine. All the best.

  Published  18th Aug 2018 at 10:22 am

If you are a Christian, I would suggest joining churches like Nairobi Cahpel or Mavuno that have mens mentorship programs. This would give you skills and help you reach other men who can mentor you. Check out Ernest Wamboye on social media who does events on dating and relationships.

  Published  20th Aug 2018 at 8:12 am