Bonga

I feel like I don't have the mental capacity to navigate adult relationships the way I'm supposed to. So I just find myself being alone to avoid being hurt. But this hurts me more because I need human contact. But then again opening up to someone is risking rejection and humiliation, it's a whole cycle. Maybe I need therapy

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Yap I feel you. Same with me , but I don't think it's something that should eat you inside. What I try to do is accept that's how I am and try to just get on with it. It's not all negative, sometimes being like this helps one avoid the wrong people. Trust your guts , when the right person comes you'll not even hesitate

Adult relationships are tough but I recently discovered the secret... Work on yourself, love yourself, be kind to yourself and you will attract the right person with no to very little effort and everything will feel right. :-)

Thanks guys for the advice. I am on a self healing journey to be the best version of myself to attract better.