Bonga

discontined from campus and my father knows i'm graduating this year i think this are my last words

  Published  25th Sep 2018 at 5:30 pm

Hello friend. I know something about parental disapproval and how it has affected me over the years. It started when I was a teenager, and still persists 20 years on.  Living to please someone‘s expectations of you can be exhausting.  I know how it feels like this is end of the road. I‘ve been there and you will make it. I had a classmate in campus who almost didn’t graduate from the course. He barely made it, (failing courses). On graduating, but he dumped his parents expectations(the degree) and did what he loved: playing video games. He travels the world over hosting video game tournaments. He is the most successful of all of us, from being last in class. Having a university degree is not a guarantee of success. Like him, your path may be different but lead you to beautiful destinations.  Have faith in yourself. I have faith in you.

  Published  25th Sep 2018 at 8:27 pm

I was in the same situation a few years ago. Discontinued from a university that everyone considered easy to graduate from. My parents were dissappointed coz they had paid so much money. I wanted to end it all and would cry myself to sleep almost every day for 3 months.  Fast forward to today I enrolled in another university and managed to graduate and I'm currently doing what I love in an awesome company.  Maybe whatever course you were doing just wasn't for you. Don't give up things do get better just hang in there.

  Published  26th Sep 2018 at 7:40 am

i appreciate the words ?


  Published  26th Sep 2018 at 10:26 am