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How do you deal with Unrequited love..It breaks my heart am so much in love with a man who doesnt love me back, he treats me so cold..Am finding it difficult to let go

  Published  4th Sep 2021 at 11:27 am

Sorry about what you are going through. Am not an expert on these matters but the longer you stay, the badder he is gonna treat you. At times it's good to know our worth, it's not gonna be easy, but a man that doesn't love you back and is "cold" towards you as you put it, doesn't deserve you. I know it's easier said than done especially when you love someone.

  Published  4th Sep 2021 at 9:05 pm

It sucks, doesn't it? When you give someone your all but they take it for granted. It's a bitter pill to swallow but you need to understand that you can't force him to love you back. Sometimes people just don't feel the same way as you do and that's okay. It has nothing to do with who you are as a person so don't beat up yourself so much over it or try to change yourself in attempt to win him over.

You don't have any option but to let him go. It's going to be hard and it's going to hurt but you have to. Here's the thing though, it may not seem like it right now but, you'll heal, you'll thrive and you'll eventually meet someone who'll love you as much as you love them.

  Published  5th Sep 2021 at 9:29 pm

thank you so much for your encouraging words and the advice. I will do my best..I'll take it one step at a time..For better days ahead

  Published  6th Sep 2021 at 8:28 am