I am married man and am still attracted to my ex who is also married. We usually find ourselves texting each other like lots of dirty messages. We have not met since we live a bit far from each other. I know this is wrong but I can't stop. I am very sure when we meet we will have sex and that will make us feel ashamed deep inside our hearts.
Hatukuachana kwa ubaya. She happens to be older than me so we decided that since I cannot marry her, she is free to get married to someone else. So ulipata jamaa akamove on. I was glad she got someone too.
But here we are now. Texting texting texting.... I know tunakosea hapa.
I am in a relationship with this amazing guy. He treats me well really well, likes me and would definitely do anything for me. The thing is, after a few months of dating i realized i am not really attracted to him physically and personality wise. He is a bit of a pushover, would do anything to please people and it has become a big turn off.
Also he can become needy at times, and too smothering. And trying to hold a conversation with him is seriously exhausting at times.
At first when we started dating, I thought he was rare and different. Treated women right and was not an asshole, which is rare nowadays. But the same qualities that attracted me to him are the same that are a big turn off now.
I really don't know what to do. I feel like if I break up with him I am losing a gem while at the same time I feel like there's no deep connection and that I am not in a passionate, consuming kind of relationship.
How do I start? Since childhood, I have been made to think that I cannot make it in life due to my average academic performance. To make matters worse my younger sibling seems to be excelling in everything they do and this has really killed my morale. I no longer even want to see them let alone interact with them. I have considered suicide several times but I have never had the guts to go through with it.
The only day I look forward to are weekends since I get to meet up with friends to have a good time and forget about everything else. I have also vowed never to have children in my life. Too much negativity going on in the world.
I have not graduated o was set to graduate in 2017 but I have one stubborn unit left. Thing is I feel so dumb and ashamed right now, I feel like I will be super judged. What do I do I am so scared.
To Capital group Initiative
RE: INTRODUCE NOTIFICATIONS
First of all, Thank you for this amazing website that is slowly rising in bringing people suffering from mental illness that can be solved through ‘anonymous’ conversations.
Secondly, I apologize in case you find my feedback displeasing.
I THINK THIS BONGA BLOG IS SO HELFUL AND SO I FEEL THE NEED FOR YOU GUYS TO CUSTOMIZE IT IN A WAY ONE CAN GET A NOTIFICATION(s) FROM A ‘REPLY’ HE/SHE RESPONDED TO AND A ‘POST’ A VICTIM POSTED. I believe this customization will ease the hassle for the victims and Professionals offering solutions in tracking their posts in order to find suggested solutions… cha muhimu mumeelewa!
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I constantly feel as if my mom and sisters favor my twin over me because of her academic prowess and wittiness, and it has given me anxiety disorders and esteem issues. I really just want to start life on my own.
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