I have a problem, there's this guy I really like not in a sexual way but like a father figure. The problem is I feel obsessed with him. I found myself seeking attention ,doing things to get his attention. I keep trying to please him and it feels good when he praises me. But It hurts because I want him to be just someone normal in my life. I feel like am idolizing him. How do I get over my obsession of seeking praise/ attention/ validation from him? It's really hurting me coz when he doesn't notice things I hurt alot.

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