Bonga

Am 24yrs old I've been dating my boyfriend for close to 3yrs and it's almost 4 months since we moved in together... couples argue as is normal but due to unresolvable issues that mostly i feel that my interests aren't met except his 90% of the time...we tried to talk about it but ends in ugly arguments and am always left feeling like am the villain ...we tried breaking up but he keeps saying he'll pay more attention and treat me better but nothing changes... what else should I do other than break up with him for good

  Published  29th Apr 2021 at 5:21 pm

The writing is on the wall.He knows your weakness that is you will crawl back to him when you part and he tells you how he will change.Unfortunately,that is the real him.He won't change and if you settle down i him as in marriage that will be your daily dose.At this point,coz have to decide if that is the kind of life you want to live forever.Don't be blinded coz he can pretend for a day or two but resolve to his real self.You already know what to do at this point.Do the right thing.

  Published  29th Apr 2021 at 11:07 pm

You have to decide*

  Published  29th Apr 2021 at 11:08 pm

your time is valuable don't let someone else waste it for you, you have to evaluate what you get out of this relationship,stop making excuses for him , it hurts to see 3 years go but this the type of thing you want to be around ?, my advice if you might need to seek services from a dating or coach because if you have to come here instead of kicking his ass out the door (I don't know context of this relation just saying ) ...look know where you stand , do not romanticise how he is in your head, my advise think of how he hurt you instead of how it was , what he can be ,who you wish for him to be , you have to come to terms that's he's not what you need in your life , it will hurt for awhile but you'll be alright

  Published  30th Apr 2021 at 12:13 am