Bonga

How do you say goodbye to your love of six years? Sounds like a medicine degree I know but that's because it started back while were still teenagers. I'm 25 now and I couldn't keep living a lie in the name of love.

Before I gathered the courage to suggest that we part ways I was so convinced that I am doing it for my emotional and mental well being since the relationship had started to become toxic.

Now that I'm about to achieve that, I feel so undeserving of the emotional and mental well being 😰😰

  Published  25th May 2021 at 9:49 am

Trust your gut. It won't work out. Break it off now. You won't be okay at first but take time to heal, you will eventually get over. There's something better out there. Even if it takes time

  Published  25th May 2021 at 5:34 pm

Hello! You left a six year toxic relationship for your emotional and mental wellbeing. Yet now that you're about to achieve that, you feel undeserving. What do you mean by this? Do you believe that you don't deserve to have peace and happiness? Do you think it was wrong for you to end the relationship?

Ask yourself what you really want and be honest with yourself. Mental distress is no joke and if left unchecked can take a toll on your life leading to an irreparable state in you developing severe mental illness. The same way you try to take care of your physical state must be the same way you take care of your mental wellbeing. Nothing and no one is worth you developing mental illness so be very careful in the choices you make and how you live your life out there. You made the right decision by removing yourself from a toxic relationship so take some time to get to better understand yourself, love yourself and be kind to yourself.

  Published  26th May 2021 at 4:10 pm

Just before a nice moment or emotion freedom there is always doubt.. That's when you know your on the right track

  Published  27th May 2021 at 1:39 pm