Bonga

Hi , I feel alone and sometimes wonder why I was created this way . I'm VERY introverted ( INFJ to be specific , took personality test as I sought answers) I've always been the odd one out, I never fit into groups. Niko campus and I can't take it anymore. My worst times are when we're told to group up or for practicals and people group up and you're left there alone. With a brave face but deep down I need a friend.

Anxiety and self-esteem are also a BIG problem. I would like to one day get out and go to the shop without my heart beating a million times and worrying about what a million things.

I'm also not studying the course I wanted so I'm really struggling to motivate myself to read it. My dream is to be a sports analyst/ journalist but I'm not good with people! 😪

I'm really struggling , I'd like to know if there are people out there like me ? How did you deal with this in your youth ?

When will this end ?

  Published  5th Oct 2021 at 7:09 pm

It would be interesting to note that 93% of campus students tend to feel anxious. So you aren’t alone, besides, strip away the facades and fineries that people put up or display and you’ll be amused...try to find some interests to partake in, start saying hi to your colleagues cordially and pretty soon you won’t dread school.

  Published  6th Oct 2021 at 4:13 pm

You arent alone on this..

  Published  6th Oct 2021 at 6:59 pm

Keep your head up.

  Published  6th Oct 2021 at 8:45 pm

Take it to God in prayer and face all your fears after all what's the worst that can happen (nothing)...this is just a season and it will pass. One day you will look back and laugh it off.

Wishing you all the best.

  Published  7th Oct 2021 at 9:32 pm