I'm considering breaking up a 4 year relationship, what should I do. There's lots of pressure to marry.
This is very little information for someone to give you advice, please talk to someone about it.
Marry for you. Not societal pressures.
Don’t marry if you don’t feel right about. The work and effort required to keep a marriage you don’t want to be in are far much greater than the cost of walking away now.
Have you perhaps met someone else?