Bonga

I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago, now I'm pregnant and in financial crisis. He just blocked me out of the blues we didn't even have an argument. I have no job plus I'm still a student. I had considered an abortion but he insisted that we keep it. Now he has abandoned me at a time when I'm so desperate. I feel so bitter. I can't open up to anyone cz I fear being judged.😓

  Published  2nd Nov 2021 at 12:30 am

I have been there but I chose to abort rather than bring a child to suffer along and maybe resent me eventually, but that's my truth not a solution

  Published  2nd Nov 2021 at 1:52 pm

I wanted to abort but I couldn't bring myself to do it

I'm 11weeks pregnant, can I still do it?

  Published  2nd Nov 2021 at 7:36 pm

Yeah but first listen to the doctor's opinion on how far

  Published  2nd Nov 2021 at 11:03 pm

Abortions opens up death into your life. Death of relationships, death of finances, death of caring, even physical death if unlucky etc It also doesn’t make you any less of a parent, other than the parent of a dead child. One that you killed.

Give birth and offer for adoption. There’s a pregnancy crisis shelters that take care of pregnant women in distress. I saw them in FB. Put email if you can’t find them

  Published  8th Nov 2021 at 4:29 am

If you are not ready, don't bring a child into this world especially from someone you resent. You will come to hate that child.

  Published  22nd Nov 2021 at 5:11 am