Bonga

I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago, now I'm pregnant and in financial crisis. He just blocked me out of the blues we didn't even have an argument. I have no job plus I'm still a student. I had considered an abortion but he insisted that we keep it. Now he has abandoned me at a time when I'm so desperate. I feel so bitter. I can't open up to anyone cz I fear being judged.😓

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I have been there but I chose to abort rather than bring a child to suffer along and maybe resent me eventually, but that's my truth not a solution

I wanted to abort but I couldn't bring myself to do it

I'm 11weeks pregnant, can I still do it?

Yeah but first listen to the doctor's opinion on how far

Abortions opens up death into your life. Death of relationships, death of finances, death of caring, even physical death if unlucky etc It also doesn’t make you any less of a parent, other than the parent of a dead child. One that you killed.

Give birth and offer for adoption. There’s a pregnancy crisis shelters that take care of pregnant women in distress. I saw them in FB. Put email if you can’t find them

If you are not ready, don't bring a child into this world especially from someone you resent. You will come to hate that child.